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Monday, May 14, 2018


Ladies, you really should know this about your man! If you don't help him, you lose too.

Are you noticing your man's hаіr lоss, а wеаk bоdу, tіrеdnеss, а рооr sехuаl lіfе аnd рооr еmоtіоnаl hеаlth? You thought thеse are the usuаl соmрlаіnts оf оldеr mеn. Тhіs іs because thеsе sуmрtоms аrе оftеn nоrmаl sіgns оf thе male аgіng рrосеss. Тhеу tеnd tо оvеrlооk undеrlуіng саusеs, suсh аs lоw tеstоstеrоnе.

Теstоstеrоnе іs а sех hоrmоnе thе bоdу nаturаllу рrоduсеs іn thе аdrеnаl glаnd аnd tеstісlеs. Іt rеgulаtеs sеvеrаl bоdу funсtіоns, раrtісulаrlу sехuаl funсtіоns аnd іnfluеnсеs рhуsісаl сhаngеs tо gіvе уоu mаsсulіnе аttrіbutеs.

Теstоstеrоnе lеvеls nоrmаllу dесlіnе аs mеn аgе. Іt mау stаrt аs еаrlу аs thе аgе оf 30 untіl аt а сеrtаіn аgе whеrе Т lеvеls аrе sіgnіfісаntlу lоw thаt іt stаrts tо mаnіfеst sуmрtоms. Тhіs іs а stаgе whеrе аn аgіng mаn іs іn аndrораusе оr thе соuntеrраrt оf wоmеn’s mеnораusе. Read on...


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Photo by C.P.Storm / CC BY

Who doesn’t want big boobs, raise your hand. Admit it, ladies. At one point, you wished that you had Scarlett Johansson’s or Kim Kardashian’s boobs.
You probably stuffed your bra with tissue paper or your mom’s pads from 1970, when you were in middle school, just to make your boobs bigger. Who can blame you? After all, men can’t help but turn around every time they see a woman with big humps on their chest.Read on...


Katy Perry, Scarlett Johansson, Salma Hayek – what do these lovely ladies have in common? Aside from their gorgeous looks, these three Hollywood stars have the, well, most prominent chest areas today. And because the society dictates that women with cup D breast sizes are sexier and more attractive, most, if not all cosmetic clinics these day include breast augmentation or breast enhancement among their list of services.
flat-chested womenHowever, well-endowed breasts don’t automatically mean you are prettier or more attractive than flat-chested women. Hello, J.Lo and Paris Hilton are still gorgeous despite their lack of, err, size.
But if you feel that there is a need to enhance your breasts because you’re too tired of shopping for bra in the pre-teens department, then go ahead. Nothing is stopping you.
But before you book that doctor’s appointment, you should know that there are safer, cheaper and equally effective ways to boost your cup size, sans the knife. Check out these six safe methods for natural breast enhancement. Read on...

Wednesday, July 20, 2016

South African Husbands sleeping with domestic helpers!

By Zenoyise Madikwa |

Frustrated men help themselves! 

Cheating is common when opportunity knocks

HELPERS, bless them, cook, clean and wash for us. They know some of our deepest secrets, and even know what the hubby's boxers look like. Without them,
some families would be in chaos.
Nomvume Maphanga, a marriage counsellor, says domestic workers are becoming so 
powerful that many marriages and relationships are threatened.
She says cases of men sleeping with their helpers are on the rise, and one in five cases of 
infidelity she dealt with in the past year has involved a helper.
She says these women are often younger, stylish, enlightened, single and struggling with
 financial issues, and many of the men they sleep with are doing well financially. With
 money and power comes a sense of entitlement.
She adds that men like to use their masculinity to advance their power by picking on weaker 
people such as maids and young girls.
"These days the helpers - unlike the old mamas who used to do domestic work in berets, 
overalls and uniforms - are younger, wear stylish clothes, are sexier, more educated and
 because of their age they are very vulnerable and available to their male bosses," 
said Maphanga.
She says this is made worse by television and other media that sexualises women in 
subservient and submissive positions.
She said by nature power is attractive and maids are at risk because they may also be 
attracted to the allure of male power.
"The power dynamic works both ways because maids are also privy to the private lives 
of those who pay them. Maids get to see their secrets. So, in a way, the bosses are 
beholden to the maid. She has power over them."
Another thing that makes domestic workers attractive is that the excitement of the forbidden 
fruit can be erotic and edgy.
What is happening? Are our men threatened by empowered women?
Not at all, says Zuko Mathyila, a male activist based in Cape Town. Mathyila said the
 biggest reason men are playing hanky panky with the maid is emotional dissatisfaction.
He says studies by marriage counsellor Gary Neuman show that 48% of men rated
 emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheat. Read on...

Tuesday, May 17, 2016

It's The Biggest Blast Of Dopamine and Oxytocin You Can Get- Plus It's FREE

A recent Gallup Poll reported that half of Americans regularly take a vitamin or nutritional supplement. It appears that adults in the U.S are becoming steadily more health-conscious and taking steps to improve their own health.
There is one healthy activity, however, that is often considered a taboo topic in our culture and even a source of shame for many individuals. That activity is masturbation. Information provided by Planned Parenthood tells us that “Negative feelings about masturbation can threaten our health and well-being. Only you can decide what is healthy and right for you. But if you feel ashamed or guilty about masturbating, talking with a trusted friend, sexuality educator, counselor, and/or clergy member may help.”
The organization's website also lists the varied health benefits of masturbation, including: creating a sense of well-being; enhancing sex with partners both physically and emotionally; increasing the ability to have orgasms; improving relationship and sexual satisfaction; improving sleep; increasing self-esteem; improving body image; reducing stress; releasing sexual tension; relieving menstrual cramps; strengthening muscle tone in the pelvic and anal areas; and reducing women’s chances of involuntary urine leakage and uterine prolapse.Another recent study suggests that men could reduce their risk of developing prostate cancer through regular masturbation, and another notes that for women, masturbating can flush old bacteria from the cervix, decreasing the chances of developing a urinary tract infection.
Masturbation is also a cornerstone of modern sex therapy. Those who seek professional counseling for sexual difficulties, including inability to orgasm, are typically instructed to masturbate to learn about their bodies and then encouraged to communicate what they discover to their partners. Many outstanding self-help books, such as Becoming Orgasmic and The Elusive Orgasm, suggest masturbation as a core strategy, and sex educators including Betty Dodson and Corey Silverberg, tout the benefits of the practice and provide how-to guides.
There is a biochemical basis for the positive effects of masturbation. It "releases feel-good neurochemicals like dopamine and oxytocin that lift your spirits, boost your satisfaction, and activate the reward circuits in your brain," reports Gloria Brame, Ph.D. "An orgasm is the biggest non-drug blast of dopamine available.” In short, a masturbation-induced orgasm creates feelings of euphoria; it’s a safe, free, and natural high.
When you consider all the benefits, it is surprising that there aren’t more people—especially women—masturbating regularly? the taboos and the resultant shame they cause are are seriously  to blame. Apart from this, women, may also have another reason: Simply stated, female masturbation presents more of a logistical challenge than their male masturbating opposites, and reaching arousal takes a lot longer for women than for men. Finding sufficient private time to reach arousal or orgasm may be difficult for women who share a bed with a partner or who have children.
Masturbation certainly requires more time and effort than taking a vitamin capsule. Yet the research on supplement benefits is riddled with conflicting results, whereas the findings on masturbation are unequivocal. What Woody Allen called "sex with someone you love" and what Betty Dodson called "selfloving" is beneficial for one’s physical, emotional, and relational health.